Jan 2, 2011

traits

what makes you a man?

  • he's always polite to other people and respects the elderly  but just with you he agrees that sometimes they can be a bit annoying haha
  • he has a healthy attitude towards money; he never brags on how much he has spent for you
  • he takes out the trash even when maggots are crawling up his arm
  • he can lift you up and carry you around the house
  • he lets you conquer the couch and doesn't mind lying on the floor
  • he doesn't mind giving you a foot massage
  • he's an outdoor sports enthusiast
  • he's literally happy as long as you're happy
  • he strives for the best -- of the both of you, no matter what his goals are.
  • he washes your car after washing his car and his mother's car, all by himself instead of going to the car wash
  • he washes the dishes even when you're around to do it for him
  • he washes the clothes and dries them off when no one is around
  • he's willing to listen when you just can't stop talking
  • he acknowledges your feelings before doing anything ***a big plus plus
  • he lets you have the last piece of a shared dessert
  • he ends a previous relationship because it wasn't working out, instead of cheating 
  • even when he had only slept for less than 4hours, he wakes up the next day to take you out for lunch because he promised (a man of his word)
  • he knows his responsibilities and owns up to them -- he sets priorities
  • when the going gets tough and you're all over the place, he remains calm, cool and collected  :)
and the list continues to grow :) However, his answer to this particular question, (do you know what makes u a man??) was one that had me smiling for the rest of the day; 'You'.

huh, really????

LOVE YOU TO BITS. boo yah.