when your comfortable

Its insane when you feel really comfortable with another human being that gets u and appreciates life similarly to the way u do until u can just not care about everything when they're around. Let's not deny it, people use most of their spare time judging others verbally or telling others around embracing 'its a free country' statement. Thus, your guard is always up around these bunch, carefully doing things trying to avoid nasty rumors or perceptions.

However, things feel natural when you're with someone you can stay silent long enough to sink into your own pool of thoughts although they're just next to you. Then, after awhile you pick up bits of the conversation back where you left off. You spend the whole day together and at the end of it, it feels as if its too early to say goodbye. Of course when we're not used to someone we try to distance ourselves from our roots. We'll perform with a little extra effort and behave all freshen up. But, with this person, its the opposite.

Or its like when u're just comfortable enough to just fart around each other. After a sec, you'll laugh with a blank expression of 'so what?'. I fart, you fart. It is a regular healthy thing to do and a hilarious part of life.

Hey, it just means we're comfortable being ourselves and relaxed enough to know the relationship is natural and normal. Nobody chooses farting as a hobby but it's part of what makes us human and its funny when we laugh afterwards. Stink bombs, machine gun blasts, whatever you're putting out there, that's fine, thats fine..that's perfectly fine.

Now im not advocating an environment of no limits. There's nothing wrong with keeping some personal space, either. After all, maybe you do your nose-picking in the car, or burp after a very satisfying meal - if so, that's cool. I dont mind.

All im saying is that there comes to a point when you're comfortable around each other too much. That shows either you're family, close friends or completely in love.